Why White Men are Better…
Posted by: VonnieNicole on: August 11, 2009
Black women seem to be dating white men with great vigor these days. White men must be better right? The problem that is presented is their lost loyalty to black men. Clearly, black men lost their loyalty years ago along with Ice T, Billy Blanks, Kobe Bryant etc. So, why are white men better? Society dictates that black men are lowly, jobless, criminals who love using women as a crutch. Black women are seen as strong and independent. The two do not seem to be created for each other anymore. Or, were they ever meant to be? I must admit I have dated all kinds of men and I must say that white men do tend to give more, but giving more does not mean better. Let’s take a look at the disparities between white and black. Education, health care and income are all related to why blacks are viewed as lower class Americans. If, according to society, white men have a greater income of course they will be able to provide more than baseless black men. At first, I deeply felt that my extreme loyalty for black men would be admired. Now, I realized this is not the case. I went to a private school where most of the black male students were athletes who seemed to be drawn to white females. I never understood why they didn’t appreciate “black girls.” When we discussed this, they said white girls were easier. But why go for something that isn’t a challenge? Clearly, this attribute demonstrates the fall of the black man. Being lazy is the main reason why they don’t remain loyal to strong black women. Yea, you may fall in love with a non-black woman but those who do not even glance at a sister are disgusting to me. As far as being loyal to black men, I refuse to do it anymore. You would think that hundreds of years of hatred and discrimination would bring us together but it has not. It seems that only the ghetto girls get the chance at real black men. You know the Ray-Rays and June Bugs. According to society, black men are supposed to be those who make babies and don’t provide for them. I know lots of well-to-do black men, but they also seem gay or are solely into exotic flavors of women. Black women deserve the best and if black men can’t do that..fuck ‘em. Some may say that this a poisonous posting that spits venom. It’s my opinion and I do plan on being with a black man in the future. I want little brown babies with nappy hair too! Society screams that white men are better. Do I believe that? Of course, I know black men are number one, but they need to up their loyalty. This posting is merely saying I will keep my options open but black men need to remember who was always by their side.
2 Responses to "Why White Men are Better…"
August 13, 2009 at 1:09 am
You know, I’ve dated all sorts of races myself. I would love to date a latino man one day, but I just haven’t met the one I’d like to date (I’m not really looking anyway, I’m dating a cute Korean right now anyway). Maybe you just haven’t met the right black man either. Who knows? Just keep an open mind and heart 
And don’t let any lamp shades fall on your head either 
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August 12, 2009 at 12:55 am
wow nav…this was my favorite one….written so eloquently and so much from the heart. But it’s true…NO we’re not given up on the Black man…but we’re certainly going to try other things until a good one comes along